
The other day, I realized that I usually pray in one of two ways. One is with my mind, and it’s when I kind of ramble about what’s in my head—all kinds of stuff about my desires and fears and whatever else. Generally, I think Christians pray like this most of the time. It’s when you talk to God the way you’d talk to another person, which I highly recommend. (Because duh.)
But it’s also important to pray the other way: Embrace God’s presence and pray about what’s on His mind, a method scripture refers to as praying in the Spirit.
Now, in order to discuss praying in the Spirit, we first need to define what praying in the Spirit actually means. Simply put, to pray in the Spirit is to pray with an intimacy and deep reverence toward God, humbled by your position before Him, and to speak about whatever the Holy Spirit places in your heart. Doing so fosters an awareness of God’s presence, and, I believe, helps you hear what He’s saying to you.
Guys and gals, I cannot emphasize enough: It’s so important to embrace God’s presence while you pray. Not only is it healthy, but we are literally commanded to do it.
Ephesians 6:18a NLT: “Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion.”
Romans 8:26 NLT: “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.”
I think it’s fair to tell you I sometimes struggle to pray in the Spirit. In fact, I actually hesitated to write this entry because I don’t want to give bad or incomplete advice. I waited a week and sought the Lord on this matter, and while I’d venture there’s more to it than what I’m about to say, here’s what I’ve noticed:
If you’re having trouble focusing, ask God for help. It’s also important to make sure you’re coming before Him humbly. Many times, I’ve had to ask Him to help me with that too. God only knows I struggle with entitlement.
Also, avoid being distracted or hurried. This can be difficult, especially if you’re excited about what you’re going to do after your quiet time. This form of idolatry can actually turn your prayer time into a chore. In fact, I’d be willing to bet it’s impossible to pray in the Spirit while that’s your attitude. As I said, it’s difficult to overcome, so the solution is to ask Him to help you approach your quiet time with the right attitude. I know I’m always saying prayer is the answer, but the Bible does tell us to pray about everything and to not be anxious about anything. Asking God for help is the best advice I can give.
Finally, make sure you’re right with God. Address any willing disobedience or unforgiveness in your heart. I’ve had to deal with that too, and I’m convinced it’s something you must take care of first if you want to pray in the Spirit. It’s just a part of what it means to humble yourself before God, you know?
James 4:7-8a NLT: “So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come close to God, and God will come close to you.”
So, do your walk a favor. Pray in the Spirit. Take the time to embrace God’s presence while you pray.
And in other news: I have a girlfriend! I’m so excited and, quite frankly, overdue to write about her. But she deserves an entry all to herself. I basically forgot to blog this year (yikes), but I’ll light a fire under my butt and do better.